Judge takes Child! Sites Broken Whirlpool Washer!
11/1/11 Detroit
Press Release
From www.bbcnw.org
Broken Whirlpool Washing Machine Causes Detroit Judge to File for Permanent Custody of Child
On November 1st Judge Mark T. Slaven’s of the Juvenile Court in Detroit ordered a PC Hearing to Terminate parental rights against the Robertson family for not having a washer and dryer in their home despite the fact that they had proof of having a washer & dryer. At the time the judge refused to look at the pictures provided by the family or even allow the families attorney’s to speak out in their defense.
Allegations were raised in court in August by the families 16 year old daughter who has been diagnosed with Schizo-affective Disorder and is currently on several medications for Hallucinations & hearing voices. Since the allegations have been made the Judge has not allowed the family to tell their side of the story and continue to make orders without a clear picture.
The case started on March 22nd 2008 and the family has complied with all orders of the court. The families other 3 children were returned home and their case was closed. The Judge is now trying to file a petition on the family for the other children despite the Child Protective Services workers stating that they see no problem and do not want to file any further petitions on the family. On November 1st the Judge ordered the CPS worker to quote:
“Look Again”
and that their Supervisor be present at the next hearing on November 15th to state to the courts why they are not filing the petition despite receiving a report on their investigations.
During court November 1st the Judge continued to give his orders before hearing from the child’s attorney, and both of the parents attorney. Showing that he had already had his mind made up before even listening to the parents side of the case. Also after the hearing was adjourned the judge called the attorneys and the daughter into his chambers, out of session and reconvened the case once he had come out.
Going back on the record the Judge stated Quote:
“Young lady your parents are not acting like parents, but don’t worry if they won’t act like parents I will make them and send them to jail.”
The judge then ordered that the parents come back on November 15th to show cause as to why they didn’t allow sibling visits to continue even though sibling visits were not ordered the at the last hearing, only family visits.
Many situations like this have occurred throughout Detroit, targeting families that are not able to defend themselves against judges or the courts. This should not be allowed to continue. Taxpayers money is spent everyday to destroy the very families they are meant to help we can no longer continue to sit by and watch or this may happen to you!
Detroit Residents takes the Message to Zajec’s office
Residents of Detroit called on Ronald Zajac to resign, while he is under federal investigation. The protesters are saying that Zajac has never administered the office in a way that responded to the needs and interest of Africa American residents of the City of Detroit. The protest takes place in the context of Detroiter’s efforts to maintain control of their school system, and water system from take over by suburban interest. http://www.youtube.com/bbcufi
Why do women look for their daddy in relationships
Most women never knew that the first man they loved would be a replica of their fathers. What ever the relationship between father and daughter is will be the guide that a woman follows in choosing a mate. I often wondered why the first man I fell in love with at 18 was so appealing to me. He was suave, charismatic and down right appealing in every way. I watched him saunter into the room smiling and greeting everyone. He captured attention the moment he entered the room. All eyes followed his every step. You see I saw that same charisma when my Daddy entered a room. Compliments for every women he encountered fell from his lips. They were all attracted to his appearance first and foremost. His spit shinned shoes glistened, his suit fit to perfection, his shirts starched to perfection with his initials embroidered on his collar and cuff this man was a replica of my daddy.
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If I understood the danger that lurked in this encounter I would have run screaming from his presence, but I was instantly hooked. His character was so familiar I felt comfortable with him because he had all the things I was used to seeing. Little did I realize that everything I despised about my father would draw me to this man. Not realizing the way my father never was ever able to connect with me, never allow me to hug him would make me more susceptible to doing anything to get his attention. Doing things to get his attention often meant I would beg my father to spend time with me. He never found that time because his drinking took precedence along with his carousing with many different women leaving me and my mother alone many nights was the only thing on his agenda. Once I was hooked on this man I could not break away because the attention I never received from Daddy I now sought from my hunter I now was the game. I began to see the same pattern repeated with my suitor but I would accomplish what my mother never could, get him to commit to only me. He was doing the same things I saw my father do drink incessantly throw women in my face tell me I was just suspicious and he wasn’t doing a thing. I believed him because he would buy time with gifts to keep me believing he loved me, Oh my wasn’t that a daddy move.
I loved him despite the fact that he never changed never attempted to. I just had to figure it out for my self that this man was only doing to me what I saw my mother allowed my dad to do to her. It had to come to an end other wise for ever I would subject my self to constant hurt. I’ve learned to forgive my father for the disappointment and pain I watched him bestow upon my mother and myself. In this forgiveness I have learned to forgive myself for not knowing that I deserved so much more. It is so very important for young girls to know that even if their fathers are not the best father or invisible in their lives they must learn that their fathers are only human, make mistakes and are subject to be failures as fathers. But there is a father that will never disappoint them I learned through forgiveness of a greater father’s love. I know know that even though my earthly father let me down, disappointed me, my Heavenly father has healed that womb from the first love in my life my daddy and I know that I can love with out fear and make better choices . I can trust that I won’t make another decision to love a man that is like my father, and that every man will be a replica of Daddy .